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The way I work in my 30s looks different because of what I did in my 20s. In this episode, I break down five things that shaped that decade—from acting on the “what ifs” and pursuing genuine interests to ignoring the wrong opinions, embracing pressure, and learning from people who had already been where I wanted to go. CHAPTERS: 00:00 Why My 30s Look Different 02:30 Ask “What If?” 05:04 Put Action Behind the What If 08:49 Say Yes Before You’re Ready 12:41 Pursue Genuine Curiosity 16:27 Stop Outsourcing Your Interests 18:56 The Signal-to-Noise Ratio 21:19 Build Around What Won’t Change 24:04 Not Everyone’s Opinion Matters 26:29 “It’s All Cringe Until It Works” 27:50 Doubt Is Only Dangerous When It Becomes Yours 32:46 What Going All In Actually Feels Like 36:45 Risk, Reward and Uncertainty 38:31 Can You Do It for 10 Years? 41:24 Learn From People Who Have Done It 43:57 Look for Patterns Worth Adopting 45:56 Who Is Actually Worth Learning From? 47:34 Why I Started Reading in South Korea JOIN THE APP AND GET…
The way I work in my 30s looks different because of what I did in my 20s. In this episode, I break down five things that shaped that decade—from acting on the “what ifs” and pursuing genuine interests to ignoring the wrong opinions, embracing pressure, and learning from people who had already been where I wanted to go. CHAPTERS: 00:00 Why My 30s Look Different 02:30 Ask “What If?” 05:04 Put Action Behind the What If 08:49 Say Yes Before You’re Ready 12:41 Pursue Genuine Curiosity 16:27 Stop Outsourcing Your Interests 18:56 The Signal-to-Noise Ratio 21:19 Build Around What Won’t Change 24:04 Not Everyone’s Opinion Matters 26:29 “It’s All Cringe Until It Works” 27:50 Doubt Is Only Dangerous When It Becomes Yours 32:46 What Going All In Actually Feels Like 36:45 Risk, Reward and Uncertainty 38:31 Can You Do It for 10 Years? 41:24 Learn From People Who Have Done It 43:57 Look for Patterns Worth Adopting 45:56 Who Is Actually Worth Learning From? 47:34 Why I Started Reading in South Korea JOIN THE APP AND GET…
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194: 5 Ways I Used My 20s to Have Success in My 30s
DidengarkanThe way I work in my 30s looks different because of what I did in my 20s. In this episode, I break down five things that shaped that decade—from acting on the “what ifs” and pursuing genuine interests to ignoring the wrong opinions, embracing pressure, and learning from people who had already been where I wanted to go. CHAPTERS: 00:00 Why My 30s Look Different 02:30 Ask “What If?” 05:04 Put Action Behind the What If 08:49 Say Yes Before You’re Ready 12:41 Pursue Genuine Curiosity 16:27 Stop Outsourcing Your Interests 18:56 The Signal-to-Noise Ratio 21:19 Build Around What Won’t Change 24:04 Not Everyone’s Opinion Matters 26:29 “It’s All Cringe Until It Works” 27:50 Doubt Is Only Dangerous When It Becomes Yours 32:46 What Going All In Actually Feels Like 36:45 Risk, Reward and Uncertainty 38:31 Can You Do It for 10 Years? 41:24 Learn From People Who Have Done It 43:57 Look for Patterns Worth Adopting 45:56 Who Is Actually Worth Learning From? 47:34 Why I Started Reading in South Korea JOIN THE APP AND GET…
193: You Are Entitled to Nothing
DidengarkanNick Saban’s “Importance of Nothing” speech got me thinking about entitlement—what we believe we’re owed and how that mindset shapes the way we work, respond, and live. In this episode, I break down why hard work doesn’t guarantee success, why process matters more than outcomes, how to remove the habits and interferences holding you back, and a simple three-part entitlement detox: audit, shift, respond. CHAPTERS 00:00 Go One More Method 01:56 Nick Saban's “Importance of Nothing” 04:12 You Are Entitled to Nothing 06:49 The Pain of Discipline vs. Disappointment 08:33 Hard Work Does Not Guarantee Success 11:00 When Nobody Bought From BPN 13:13 The Just-World Trap 14:42 Intentions vs. Outputs 17:37 Process Over Outcomes 20:44 Win the Next Play 24:20 Stop Adding. Start Subtracting. 27:07 Your Words Become Your Rudder 30:03 Why People Fear Success 34:17 Internal vs. External Locus of Control 36:35 The Entitlement Detox: Audit, Shift, Respond 41:16 Courage Requires Uncertainty JOIN THE APP AND GET READY FOR UPDATES…
182: You Can't Cheat the Marathon — Eric Floberg's 8-Year Journey to 2:29
DidengarkanEric Floberg ran his first marathon in 3:50. Eight years later, he crossed the Boston finish line in 2:29. In this episode, we are covering his marathon journey, fueling breakthroughs, training volume, the mindset unlock, balancing fatherhood, sobriety, and why discipline without gratitude will cost you. CHAPTERS: 0:00 Intro 4:44 Sweat Tests, Sodium Loss & Electrolyte Strategy 12:30 Why Dads Need a Goal That's Just Theirs 23:08 The Wake-Up Moment 28:18 Years 1–5 32:28 How Everything Changed 40:16 Carb Loading/Race Fueling Mistakes 45:36 The Full Marathon Timeline 51:09 What Made the Biggest Difference 1:09:23 Stop Feeling Guilty for Being Tired 1:13:57 Balancing Training, Fatherhood & Presence 1:22:08 Sobriety, Family Legacy & Generational Health ORDER MY BOOK HERE: https://www.amazon.com/Go-One-More-Intentional-Life-Changing/dp/1637746210 FOLLOW: Become a BPN member FOR FREE - Unlock 25% off FOR LIFE https://www.bareperformancenutrition.com/collections/performance-nutrition IG:…
192: Stef and I Answer Your Questions (Marriage, Social Life, Parenting & More)
DidengarkanStef joins me again to talk about marriage, faith, family, community, and the season we’re currently walking through. We unpack how following Christ has changed our relationship, what we’re learning about love and respect, why we’re craving deeper community, our desire to move back to Tennessee, and learning to fear God over people. CHAPTERS: 00:00 Intro 00:50 US Open Tennis Obsession 04:10 Kids, Cookies & Family Routines 06:56 The Sweet Treat Debate 11:16 How Faith Changed Our Marriage 17:51 Love Languages, Love & Respect 24:49 Our Current Social Life in Texas 30:19 Why We’re Craving Real Community 31:38 The Tradeoffs of This Season 33:25 Brotherhood, Friendship & Accountability 37:09 Why We’re Moving Back to Tennessee 40:09 Our Favorite Memories Together 50:56 Our BPN Supplement Staples 56:19 Fearing God Instead of People 01:03:58 Closing JOIN THE APP AND GET READY FOR UPDATES https://www.nickbarefitness.app/ ORDER MY BOOK HERE: https://www.amazon.com/Go-One-More-Intentional-Life-Changing/dp/1637746210…
191: How I Locked In and Got Leaner in 90 Days
DidengarkanOver the last 90 days, I lost about 10 pounds and got leaner without crash dieting, starving myself, avoiding social situations, or sacrificing my training and recovery. I did it by locking in - not through extreme restriction, but by narrowing my focus, reducing unnecessary decisions, and giving the process enough time to work. In this episode, I explain what it really means to lock in, why some people may underperform to avoid raising the standard expected of them, and the difference between moving with urgency and living in a hurry. Then I break down the five changes I made. CHAPTERS: 00:00 Intro 01:34 The Marathon Prep Analogy for Locking In 03:58 What Locking In Is NOT 04:56 Relaunching the App 08:40 The Winter Arc 13:22 Why People Are Afraid to Lock In 17:19 What Locking In Actually Means 18:14 Minimizing Decision Fatigue 21:42 Urgency vs. Hurrying 24:25 How I Got Leaner 30:07 Why Slow, Sustainable Weight Loss Wins Long-Term 33:21 Change One Variable at a Time 38:39 The 5 Things I Did to Get Leaner in…